i would have thought about this before 2 weeks, that for being into a relationship there is a basic criteria. A criteria that someone like me, a south indian mallu christain shouldnt have missed.

you should have some basic qualities or rather inferiorities....

courage to love someone who loves you a hundred times more
courage to say your dad that he is a north indian and does not speak malayalam
courage to say your mom that he does not believe in god or religion
courage to say your brother that he will take care of your sister more than you do
courage to say your sister to erase the stories of all boy friends i have told till now, as am gonna make a history now


courage to tear off a seven year old relationship, keeping in mind all good and bad moments we shared
courage to tell him that i wanted to be with you with my mind and brain but not my heart
courage to tell him that all the constaints that worsed our relationship is there in this relatioship too...or there are more, still i want this
courage to tell him that i have to move on, i want to move on and am moving on

greater than all, courage to listen to your heart and believe that you would be always happy as you are now.
And i believe that not having courage is a sin. Being coward is defenitly an unbailable offence

I have loved me till now and wanted to be happy till day. But when happiness comes and calls, am not free, my legs are tied with chains of cowardliness. make me free....let me fly...there is no bird that can only fly in south, there is no tree which only flowers in south. but here am I who is not supposed to fall in love with a non-south indian.